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Craniofacial reconstructive surgery is usually done to improve function, such as feeding, breathing, and seeing. Craniofacial reconstructive surgery is usually not done for cosmetic reasons alone. There are a handful of craniofacial surgeons doing reconstructive surgery on children with Down Syndrome. The reconstructive surgery for people with Down Syndrome is a controversial subject. I oppose reconstructive surgery for people with Down Syndrome because I find it totally UNNECESSARY.
"Skin Deep"
On Sunday, February 21, 1999, I watched a program called "Skin Deep" on the Discovery Channel. The program was about the parents deciding on reconstructive surgery for their son who has Down Syndrome.
A Brief Synopsis of the Program
My Opinions of the Show
I found the program to be disturbing for several reasons:
1. The Parents
It was quite obvious that the parents were thinking of no one but themselves. It was quite clear that they did not accept their child's disability. The father kept wanting the child's face to look normal. They would go to any lengths. I like what what one of my friends said, "I feel bad for this sweet little boy having to grow up with them as his parents." Someone else said, "self-centered yahoos." Another friend suggested abuse. Why would parents want to put their child through something that is so unnecessary?? My answer: They were only thinking of themselves!! Very, very sad :-( The bottom line was they did not want to have a child who looked different. I wonder how they would cope with a child who had a craniofacial condition, such as arhinia??? I thank God for my parents every day of my life.
2. The Plastic Surgeon
I was utterly disgusted with the way Dr. Salyer described people with Down Syndrome. Remember this doctor is one of the first doctors in the United States to ever perform craniofacial reconstructive surgery. The plastic surgeon downplayed the whole surgery. I must say the best quote has been: "Does anyone know the difference between God and a plastic surgeon? God doesn't think He's a plastic surgeon." (The quote came off one of the listservs for individuals and families dealing with Down Syndrome.) I just don't get into the God complex from any doctor. Even my own plastic surgeon knows when enough is enough!! Thank God my plastic surgeon doesn't have the God complex. If he did, I would have been gone a long, long time ago.
Judging by the parents reaction in the recovery room leads me to believe that they were not fully prepared for how their son would look after surgery. I really feel that very few doctors prepare anyone for after surgery. In 1978, when I had my first Tessier surgery, my parents walked into ICU and nearly passed out after seeing me for the first time. They had no idea what I would look like after that surgery. Mom has always told me the only features she could recognize were my eyes and fingernails.
3. The Child
I did not like how the parents or Dr. Salyer did not direct anything towards the child. The child may have been three years old but must have had some degree of understanding. I have a friend who has a son who is two years old. Even tho her son is young, she still explains everything to him. I never heard the parents of the little boy talk about the surgery with him and what would happen to him. They were spending way too much time concentrating on how different he would look after the surgery. The parents should have waited until the child was older to include him in the decision-making process. I didn't care for the way Dr. Salyer told the parents how "We can do touchup surgery." Don't children have a say in their lives?? I wasn't too much older than the little boy when I was asking everyone questions about the hospital.
The child was beautiful before the surgery. Personally, I didn't see too much of a major change in his appearance after the surgery. No amount of surgery is going to take away the characteristics of Down Syndrome. Just like no amount of surgery will ever make me Miss America on the outside. But you know what?? I CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE AND OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
4. Facial Anomalies
1. Doing Surgery on a Child with Mental Retardation
Most craniofacial surgeons don't do surgery on children with profound mental retardation since they would not benefit from the surgery. In fact, Dr. Tessier would not operate on a child with mental retardation unless he or she was high functioning, meaning that he or she could learn basic life skills. I have a friend with mental retardation who went thru some craniofacial reconstructive surgeries at the same time as I did. She is high functioning. She is able to live on her own with limited supervision. Her mom is a retired nurse who only put her thru the surgeries to save her sight, which she ended up losing after her near-death experience. When my friend nearly died after her surgery in the early 1980s. her mom said no more reconstructive surgery. My parents and I met several other children and adults with mental retardation who went thru craniofacial reconstructive surgeries. They were high functioning. Sometimes craniofacial reonstructive surgery is necessary in certain cases of craniosynostosis. I met a little girl who was born with Pfeiffer Syndrome (cloverleaf skull). She was blind and deaf and had a tracheostomy. I think that she had some degree of mental retardation. Dr. Tessier had to rebuild her skull.
2. Putting a Child through Unnecessary Reconstructive Surgery
Craniofacial reconstructive surgery is hellish for functional purposes. But putting a child thru it for the sole purpose of cosmetic is unthinkable. There is nothing wrong with the appearance of child or adult with Down Syndrome!! Parents don't want their children teased. But, the fact is ALL children get teased whether they have distinct facial features or not. If the child wants the surgery, the parents should wait until the child is old enough to be involved in the decision-making process.
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